America'sKinkiest States

This 2026 index compares adult-store access, self-reported sex frequency, NSFW search demand, and kink-related search interest across all 50 states.

Key Findings

#1

New Mexico

New Mexico takes the top spot with a Kink Score of 91.65 out of 100.

10,585

New Mexico

New Mexico also leads for estimated NSFW search interest per 1K residents.

11.3

Oregon

Oregon has the highest adult-store density, with 11.3 stores per 1M adults.

1,291

Vermont

Vermont leads for kink-related search interest, with 1,291 searches per 10K residents.

2.81

Alaska

Alaska reports the highest average sex frequency, at 2.81 times per week.

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Full State Ranking

50 states
Rank State Kink Score Average weekly sex frequency Adult stores per 1M adults Kink searches per 10K residents NSFW searches per 1K residents

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Methodology

We compared all 50 states using four signals: access to adult stores, self-reported sex frequency, NSFW search demand, and searches for kink-related terms. Together, they offer a broad view of where interest and access appear strongest. The results describe statewide patterns, not the behavior or preferences of any individual.

Each signal contributed a different share of the score: adult stores per 1M adults 35%, NSFW searches per 1K residents 30%, average sex frequency per week 25%, and kink searches per 10K residents 10%. This gives the most weight to adult-store access while still accounting for online curiosity and reported activity.

Where the data came from: adult-store counts were collected from OpenStreetMap through the Overpass API using locations tagged as shop=erotic. Where a state was missing, Nominatim reverse geocoding was used to identify it. Average sex frequency came from the NapLab Sex Survey, while NSFW and kink-related search volumes came from Google Keyword Planner estimates in the campaign dataset. We converted each metric into a percentile rank, then combined the four results into a Kink Score out of 100.

A note on the results: search volume shows curiosity, not confirmed participation or personal preference. The kink search analysis is based on a curated list of terms, OpenStreetMap may not include every adult-oriented retailer, and per-capita figures in smaller states can be more affected by unusual values.